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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you admit he's rude, and that you didn't like him yourself. But you're upset your best friend notices these things? You're in the wrong here. [/quote]

OP here. Cold is a better word to use than rude. He’s very polite and respectful but she has said the fact that he never talks to her unless she speaks is rude. He will greet her but he just sort of is in the background of most conversations unless it’s something he knows a lot about. Then he’s a big talker. [/quote]

Sounds like my husband.  Just because someone doesn't speak unless spoken to doesn't make them rude, as long as they do greet people.  Perhaps talk to them both (separately) and tell her what you told us, and tell him that he's coming off to your friends as cold/distant, and perhaps could he make a bit of effort?[/quote]

OP here. I can definitely bring it up to him.

We first met through mutual friends at a birthday party. He was very quiet besides saying a quick “hello” when we were introduced. I thought he was a bit distance for most of the night, but he ended up coming up to talk to me about something I was sharing earlier in the night. We talked for a decent amount of time and he hit my number. We went on a date the next day and it lasted the entire day.

I’ve met him parents who his dad has a similar demeanor. Very nice and pleasant but quiet and calm. [/quote]

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