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Reply to "Spouse just sits there when I do everything"
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[quote=Anonymous]Does he have long term friendships and a social life? Is he successful and getting promotions at work? If either of these is true, I'd think it is more of a relationship issue. Or is he more of a lump, a gamer, etc., and if his family are similar, hoard, are underemployed, etc., I'd suspect mental illness &/or neurodiversity. Approaching this as a relationship issue will not improve things. Targeted help and meds may. Particularly true if kids may have similar traits. If mental illness, the NAMI family to family course is free and online so can be done when it fits your schedule. If DH has any time of impairments re: mood or executive functions, targeted help will help not only him and marriage but family and kids. [/quote]
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