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[quote=Anonymous]We ski a lot with our kids, and I often stress to dh that he can't assume always that I am the one skiing behind the youngest ds in case he falls. But the fact is, unless I specifically say 'YOU ski behind him now', he skis ahead. Today he did so again, on a hard run. Ds fell, had a total meltdown and refused to move, skiers were shooting past us and it was very dangerous. I spent 30m coaxing him to get up and ski bc by this point dh was down the mountain. At one point a skier took me out hard. I guess the obvious answer is because I am not only the breadwinner but the default organizer and responsible party for EVERYTHING. I do 90% of the admin in addition to work, so resentment. But it feels like something even deeper like trust and fear or.. not sure. Dh is furious with me for yelling at him but meanwhile something about this scenario just lit a huge fire for me. [/quote]
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