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[quote=Anonymous]You should not frame your post-divorce life as what like would be like if you were with a different/better man in a loving relationship. You should frame it as your life alone without your current DH. Is it worth it to you? I am not trying to be unkind. I would say the same to someone who wanted to quit their job without having another one lined up. I would not assume you'll find a  better job. I would imagine myself as single. The question is, is life with DH so bad that it would be worth being alone? For many women that is absolutely true. Finding a loving relationship is icing on the cake that you can't assume will happen.

Think about your life without him. Would it be more peaceful? How would you handle working and taking care of the kids? What kind of work would you do? Could you handle full custody if he doesn't fight for it? What about 50/50? What would you do with your evenings (realistically - taking into account child and job responsibilities). How would it be better and worse than what you have now? You deserve peace and to enjoy your life.[/quote]

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