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[quote=Anonymous]My marriage is dead. I can’t stand my DH, he’s drunk and childish most of the time. Controlling and manipulative. Therapy has helped me see and understand it. Did an okay job of pretending for years because we have three small kids but now I can’t even pretend to care. About his dysfunctional family. About his health issues. His liver. I don’t care. At all. It’s been exhausting for years and when you get to the DGAF point, it’s a load off for sure. But it’s now also impossible to pretend. But we’ve got kids. I’m a SAHM. Living without a shred of emotional satisfaction is taking its toll. Seems like I’d be a better person, mother etc if I had an opportunity to just start over. Maybe find love in my 40s. Is that even possible at my age and with kids in tow? How horrible will divorce be? Married 15 years. Please be kind in your responses. Some days I wish I didn’t wake up. I’ve forgotten totally what it feels like to be in a healthy, loving relationship. [/quote]
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