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[quote=Anonymous]Was he always like this? Did you fall in love with his artistic, carefree, low-stress side and only in your mid-thirties realize you want kids and a big house and things that require sustained work and effort? Or was he formerly more of a striver and has turned into a slacker? If it’s the former, then he showed you his true self and you picked him for those qualities. If you don’t like them now, do him a favor and leave, since neither of you will be happy. If it’s the latter, then there’s something else going on and maybe you’ll be able to work with him to get his motivation back. If that fails, you probably need to leave. [/quote]
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