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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Insist that he explain how he came to this opposite conclusion. Was losing you what made him change his mind?  That might be good for your ego but embarking upon parenting with someone he doesn't want it is a recipe for unhappiness. [/quote]

OP here. He’s 33. He’s always wanted kids up until about 3 months before we split up. One of our friends split up after having a child and the other couple we know is constantly fighting after having a child. His brother recently had his first child and the baby is very difficult. My SIL has some PPD issues and I think all of this has made him concerned about having kids. [/quote]

You think or you know?  Has he used his words and explained the introspection your describe or are you trying to concoct a story that will enable you to take him back in good conscience? [/quote]

OP here. I know. He has stated these relationships breaking down explicitly as why he became hesitant. He never said he didn’t want kids - he said he was unsure we should have kids. He could never fully tell me why and I broke it off. He said it took time in therapy to realize that he is just scared that we will end up like so many other couples and our friends. [/quote]

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