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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So what changed? And how old are you and your ex-bf? If he’s 20s, I’d give him a chance if no other red flags and no other conditions (like yes, I want kids, but first let’s get married 3 years down the road, and have kids 5-10 years after that… that sort of agreeing and then procrastinating on it). If he’s in his early -mid 30’s, I don’t know, think about it. If he’s older than 35, then just move on.[/quote] OP here. He told me he went to see a therapist about it. He said seeing all these relationships break down after they and kids made him question if he wanted kids. He feared our relationship would end up like this. He said he talked it through with a therapist and realized he was overthinking things and that our relationship isn’t theirs. He still wants kids. He’s not very good with change and I think he was just worried that kids would cause our relationship to end up like the couples we know. [/quote]
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