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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First, let me say this is going to be a vent and filled with petty things I'm sure.

Fiancee and I have been slowly planning our wedding, but due to family circumstances (both of our fathers hit a snag in their health), we have not gone ahead and set a date for our wedding.  However, we have told all our friends and family what the plan is for the wedding and around the time we will be having the wedding (not this October, but the following one).  So, my fiancee has a friend,[b] who although is a nice guy, has had a lot of psychological problems.  Thankfully, he seems to have found the right dosage of medications and has really gotten his life together.  He met an amazing girl, has a steady job, and is no longer self medicating with random women, drugs, and alcohol.  I'm thrilled that he is so happy and although he lives about 5 hours away, we see him about once a month.  [/b]
   Fiancee got a call last night and his friend is now engaged.  Like I said, I'm so happy to see him so happy.  Yeah, they are planning on getting married on New Years in the exact same location we have told our friends about.  I'm pissed.  This location holds a special meaning to my fiancee and I, and his friend has never even been there (it is about 4 hours away from us, about 5 from him).  WHAT THE FUCK.  There is no way around him just choosing this location out of the blue as it's been discussed several times in front of him/with him.  Fiancee is pretty annoyed as well and told his friend this.  His friend apparently just shrugged it off.   
     I know I am being petty about this and his friend can get married wherever he wants, but I def. feel like he knew very well we wanted to get married there last year and  that's why he chose it.  Last time we were with them (about a month ago) he kept joking that he was going to propose and going to beat us to the altar because he has to beat my fiancee at something.    Even fiancee's other friends who are also friends with this guy think it was a shitty move of him.  
    Anyways, thank you for letting me vent.  I'm under so much stress with my dad and trying to plan this wedding, I think I'm acting overly emotional and annoyed about it.  [/quote]

This was pretty useless information. Not sure why you felt the need to tell us about his problems mentally, with women, drugs, etc. Are you trying to degrade him? Will that change the situation of him taking your favorite wedding location? The location is for everyone who pays. Get over it. [/quote]

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