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Reply to "Desperately need DH to step up and it isn’t happening "
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like your only option is to downsize your life and live in a lifestyle and manner that works with your current salary plus your husbands salary. Take the financial pressure off by creating a life within the HHI you currently have rather than the HHI you had before. Then you still have the time for the kids. And you will be in a better position if the marriage ends to not have such big expenses to cover on your own. No matter how much you want to, it doesn't sounds like your DH will change or wants to change. [/quote] Op here. I think this is the key, but I am having trouble getting DH to even participate with this plan. Over the weekend I had scheduled showings with potential tenants for our house and DH refused to clean his office (which looks like a hoarder space-full of trash and papers and you can’t even see the floor). He ended up locking it during the showings and the tenants couldn’t see that entire part of the house. [/quote]
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