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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH works with a team of about 20, both men and women, 1/3 being women. He talks about “Leah” and “Amy” quite often, and they are definitely his “work wives” if I’m correct about the meaning of that phrase. They know how he takes his coffee and about our child’s eczema; Leah even researched some remedies and told DH, who told me. Those are examples. Today, when the topic came up, he randomly told me how “great” Leah and Amy would be at something (that I am admittedly NOT great at, though his comment was not directed at me at all) and I got so irrationally fired up [b](internally, he has no idea,[/b] though I was close to blowing up about how tired I am of hearing about how “great” Leah and Amy are, and so I’m here now to seek advice so it doesn’t come to that.)

I’ve met them. I have no reason to believe anything nefarious is happening. They are both nice to me, but not overly nice, or standoffish, either. Both are married, not that that matters, but just throwing it out there. I have no idea why they make me feel so insecure. I’m being honest when I say I have NEVER felt this way about any of his female coworkers, or any other women for that matter, before, so I have no idea where this is coming from or what to do about it. Any advice?[/quote]  I mean, why are you continuing to torture yourself?  Tell him how this is making you feel before.  You should have told him a long time ago before you got to the tipping point of blowing up.[/quote]

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