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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recently learned a guy I was casually seeing is also seeing 4 other women of all ages. Younger and older than him. 2 of whom he’s on relationships with. They don’t know of these other women.

I knew we casual, but shocked it was that many. [b]What do men get out of this[/b]? Isn’t that hard to keep up? Harder than a relationship. [/quote]

S*x, lol. [/quote]

I doubt he gets more sex seeing several casually if, for example, he was living with a partner having sex every day or every other day. These women might have limited time available, kids etc.

What he's certainly getting is variety. This person is not monogamous, which is why I never see anyone who wants casual. Imagine exposure to STDs with that many partners! These 4 women could be sleeping with several men each, too[/quote]

Variety and marginal utility matter here. For a casual dater, 4 sexes a week w/ 4 girls is better than 5 sexes a week with 1 girl. The excitement from variety outweighs whatever the man gets from a marginal increase of sex. [/quote]

"Casual dater" = poly man. For other men that stops being fun and they get overwhelmed. Many guys told me that after a year on OLD they literally get sick of f...g around and just want to pick one that addresses their needs. A lot of men actually like stability of easily accessible sex, and not spend on dates constantly chasing new partners[/quote]

Sure, but what you described isn't OP's situation. The guy is seeing OP while doing stuff with 4 others. Clearly "f..g around" like most people do at some point in OLD. [/quote]

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