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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would call that cousin and ask for specifics as to why the whole family hates me. Then I would seriously analyze what they said. I might also ask other family members if they agreed. Then, if I actually liked my family, I'd try to improve the relationships by taking their concerns to heart. If I didn't actually like my family I would ignore the whole thing and block my cousin's number, email and texts.[/quote] I did politely message her back and ask for details. She blocked me. [/quote] I'd move on, OP. Make a good life with your DH. You might also want to read up on scapegoat dynamics in dysfunctional families. Sounds like they have kept you in that role for years with minimal contact. https://www.scapegoatrecovery.com/2020/08/28/5-critical-things-to-know-about-family-scapegoating-abuse-fsa/ Your cousin sounds like someone best out of your life. [/quote]
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