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[quote=Anonymous]I was fine w the mental load while my DH appreciated me. Then we had a few serious health and financial issues come up, and I realized he couldn’t and wouldn’t step up when I needed more support. I wish he had done more or at least been aware of all I did, so that I could have gotten help when I needed it. It bothered me all along that he didn’t do more than just work. I was his secretary, chef, personal shopper and entertainment in addition to doing and being everything for two very busy kids, now grown. We didn’t even know the term “mental load” when my kids were young, but now that I know about weaponized incompetence, gaslighting, etc, I wish I had done things differently. [/quote]
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