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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, I had one at 41. Was on the pill and took CBD, which I think reduces effectiveness. Baby was born early in the pandemic. We had an only child before and I didn't want more kids because she was so difficult. She got more difficult when her sibling arrived (the timing of arriving early in the pandemic meant two huge changes at once). I didn't want more kids because the first one was so hard and I never thought our marriage would survive a second child either. Almost four years later, we're in couples therapy and there are many days that I feel like we won't make it. Also, I'm constantly exhausted and overwhelmed. We had some freedom with one, we have none now. We never felt financial stresses before, but now we do. I'm 45 and am chasing around a wild preschooler while also dealing with a PITA tween. I love the second child but life was definitely more enjoyable and manageable with just one. [/quote] Thank you for this honesty.[/quote]
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