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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is a reason that this absolutely a$$hole was able to convince you that their good opinion was the most important thing in the world. Figure out what that reason is. Deal with it. And as you do, they will lose their hold on you and you'll stop stalking them online and thinking about what went wrong. You'll even stop being mad at them, to some degree (at least as mad as you currently feel) because you'll realize they no longer have that power over you. You'll discover that you were worthy all along, regardless of what they thought of you. And in this journey, you'll also start to realize that maybe MOST people's opinions of you don't matter. Maybe you can pick and choose whose opinion matters, and you might eventually even decide that list has like three people on it and the name at the top? Yours. And this jerk you dated for a while does not even rank, they are so irrelevant to anything that matters. They were like some kind of weird goblin you met on your way to Self-Actualization Mountain, and they can sink back into the bog with the rest of the goblins and you don't need to deal with them anymore.

Good luck. It's a hard journey but it has real rewards.[/quote]

OP here. Thank you for this. They lurk and spy on my life, so the goblin description is apt. I appreciate this feedback.[/quote]

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