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[quote=Anonymous]Don't do it. Honestly if you're not feeling it now the pregnancy with a toddler is rough and then watching your relationship change with #1 is really hard if you're already feeling blah towards the embryo. But to be clear gender disappointment is real and honest and totally okay. If I was in my 40s and we were in a good groove I'm not sure Id risk the disruption for a baby I wasn't 100 percent sold on. I'm not discounting all the good that can come from #2 but it doesn't sound like you guys want or are ready Not sure if it helps- a little different. But we ended up with 2 of the same gender and 1 of another. We transferred the 1 thinking we could always give one of the remaining two a try one day. This pregnancy has been so traumatic that if this baby makes it here in one piece I think we are absolutely done. There is no way I'm doing this again with a child in foot. [/quote]
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