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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, I will be in the minority here but I feel as badly for him as I do for you. I think you both need a lot of individual therapy and a lot of time. Only after that will you be able to trust your gut and make a good decision. He may be addicted to sex and running toward these hookups as an escape. It doesn’t excuse it, but it could be a poor coping mechanism as opposed to a narcissistic jerk living it up behind your back. The fact you said he couldn’t go through with hiring a sex worker makes me think he has struggled deeply with his own sexuality, psychology, and morality.

Sending you giant creepy internet hugs.[/quote]

This is actually a very intuitive post. He said in the past he needs to dig deep to understand more about why he makes such poor decisions. I have a big feeling it's related to his childhood because his brother behaves very similarly. He had his own therapist until we started seeing a marriage counselor, then he stopped seeing her. The thought of sex addiction has crossed my mind a million times because he's always watched a lot of porn, and now that it's so easily accessible live, it's scary. I appreciate your response. [/quote]

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