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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get your own individual therapist. You need someone on your side, a marriage counselor is on the "marriage" side, not your side. You may need both. Trust will be a big issue I foresee in the future if you try to stay married.[/quote] Thanks - I've had the same thought. Our marriage counselor is basically saying we need to "start over" in our marriage - doesn't want us (me) to bring up the past. Not sure how I can do that. It's also very hard because I'm extremely close to his family and so many family/holiday dynamics will change if we split. Everything seems easier to stick it out but I don't know how long I can do this for. Trust is very badly broken. [/quote]
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