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[quote=Anonymous]I’m scheduled to have a DTR talk with a man I’ve been seeing for 3 months. Up until a couple of weeks ago things have been picture perfect between us. Things had been picking up between us, so I asked if he thought this was heading to an official relationship. He said he was still checking for compatibility and had a lot of questions about what being in an official relationship looked like to me. For some reason all of this was a turn off to me. The times I’ve entered into serious relationships with men there was not a lot of back and fourth on it. It was simple….do you wanna be my girlfriend? Then we figure the rest out along the way.

We are scheduled to talk soon about it at his request and I’m dreading it. I suspect I will find the whole thing emotionally draining and we will not leave the discussion with a label. Does this sound like a fundamental incompatibility? Or should I suck it up and try to do things his way? Up until this point he has been a complete gentleman and seems to genuinely
Like me a lot.[/quote]

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