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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve seen that it can help all kids (but I think especially those with possible ASD or ADHD) for you to actually just say the words you think they should say in a tone of voice that indicates you want them to repeat it.  “Try again” means it’s possible for them to fail again and “speak kindly” is open to interpretation, so it’s helpful to just be conpletely explicit.  I’ve been trying it and it seems to result in less frustration anger from my 7yo son when I do.  I also try to reduce correcting in public unless it’s super necessary.  It’s embarrassing and often if I wait until later and bring it up privately he’s receptive to hearing why something he said was rude - this obviously only works for minor infractions. [/quote]

This is so helpful thanks. But also the point of my post because I feel like he’s just getting more and more mad at me. “Sammy, say ‘I can’t play right now, I’m reading’ (instead of GO AWAY). I worry I’m nagging the heck out of him but my goodness![/quote]

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