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[quote=Anonymous]We do have help- we pay a lady to go over few times a week - we also have her in facilities- sadly this is her 7th place in 5 years and two of the locations were 90k a year. So we have selected top notch, but sadly they are still not great and we have to manage a lot and plus, want to visit and check on her. If you haven’t gone though caring for an aging parent, it’s hard to comprehend- I had visions of her joining us for kids events and over for dinner Sunday when we moved her up to us. Since day 1, it’s been a lot. She didn’t adjust- had more advanced dementia - then stroke - then broken leg- shingles- flu- two UTIs. Been in hospital 6 times. Facility can be top notch, then management change and we are having to move her- her level of care changes- you name it. But at the end of the day, having another special needs “family”not child is dividing ours. [/quote]
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