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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you told him this? What is his response? Hard to say if you’re being unreasonable without knowing the details. Is he busy getting kids to bed and then packing lunches and cleaning etc and is just to tired to talk about his day, when nothing interesting happened?

I hate talking on the phone and this would not work for me (I’m a woman). DH and I just slowly started spending more nights together than apart, and then got engaged and now married. When one of us travels, we almost never talk on the phone unless there’s something specific to discuss. We may FaceTime to say hi to the kids. [/quote]

I spoke with him about it once. He acknowledged that I was stating what I wanted. He said that sometimes his days are stressful and he wants alone time to process. He is also the father of an 11 year old, so I know that takes up time, which is why I just would like a couple of mins after his child is in bed.

He has always emphasized the importance of wanting to be exclusive with me, but on my end I’m unable to feel like we are for sure in a monogamous relationship without this element.
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Wait what? You want the nightly call to ensure that he’s not with someone else?[/quote]

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