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[quote=Anonymous]Dh's snoring has gotten worse and worse over the years and he will do nothing about it. I read on the health forum about husbands who use pillows or tennis balls to stay on their sides or cpap machines or tape their mouths shut. For me, nothing. I just got yelled at for asking him to stay on his side so he stops sounding like a motor boat.

I have a job and all the parenting responsibilities and need to sleep, too. At this point, i would do separate bedrooms but we don't have one to spare.

It's just not fair. He won't take any action to be responsible for his sleep disruptions. It isn't just snoring. He flails arms and legs and flips over constantly.  I've timed the intervals between large movements and sometimes it is less than 5 minutes. He injured me once by smacking me in the head with his elbow on its way down from a flail so I use a pillow between our heads to give him an elbow rest that isn't my head.

He did a sleep study several years ago but apparently passed his one non-flailing night that night so the doctor saw nothing. I provided her a video later and she said she understood after seeing the video but "was not inclined to treat" the problem. DH won't do anything further to limit the thrashing and flailing and snoring. Because that's all my problem.[/quote]

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