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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would offer to pay for an airbnb walking/busing distance from the hospital for FIL for the duration.  If he wants more help than that then he can allow your DH to discuss the situation with the care team so that you can actually understand what is happening.  It’s unfair to refuse to give you the means to plan your lives around this health crisis AND expect you to drop everything.[/quote]

He was offered to stay in a "friend of a friends" Airbnb condo at a big discount for 30 days within walking distance of the hospital/restaurants/etc. He said no. It would have been around $1500. His mortgage is paid off and he gets around $9000/month in retirement from both him and MIL’s pensions. He is still persistent that DH should be picking him up/dropping him off at the hospital (in which he would be arriving at 6AM, 2 hours before visiting hours). When DH asks him direct questions about MIL’s care he is very cagey, non-direct and either gives non answers or says yes/no and changes the subject. DH is getting frustrated but also afraid to confront his Dad. [/quote]

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