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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dear MILs,

Your son’s marriage is not your business considering your son’s marriage (aside from being a father to our children) is now the first and more important relationship. Who works more hours in the marriage. Guess what? Not your business. Who works less hours in the marriage. Guess what? Not your business Who does more with the children. Guess what? Not your business.

Who gets up more with the children. Guess what? Yup you guessed it not your business.

How your son and his wife decide how to handle their finances as a married couple. Guess what? Not your business.

It is not your place to pull your son aside and question him about the runnings of inside the household or try and say disparaging things about his wife. You aren’t there 24/7 so you really have no idea how things really go down unless you are.

Obviously you trust yourself that you did a great job raising your son, right? At least I would hope so. So wouldn’t you assume that your son would defend his wife each and every time first and foremost and put her first? That’s what a good mother teaches that once married his spouse and kids come first and a true man defends his wife and stands by her.

Your son is grown with his own family his life is no longer your business. You had 18 years to raise him and mold him your relationship with him now has changed to an adult relationship with him.

Things that are your business as a MIL. If you are financially supporting your son and his wife in anyway and they aren’t spending THEIR money in the way in which it was intended.

Also for the love of god MILs stop stop stop blaming your DILs for the actions of your sons. If your son doesn’t call and/or visit you as often as you like that’s not the DIL’s fault. Your son is a grown man with a mind and brain of his own to make his own decisions. Also he has his own car and cell phone that he can choose to pick up and text or call or get in and drive in.

It is an incredibly misogynistic mindset to have that the DIL in the relationship is responsible for your son’s behaviors in any way shape or form. Your DIL having a vagina doesn’t automatically cause her to hypnotize your son to do as she pleases.

And listen here and listen good. IF your son chooses to listen to his wife’s wishes THATS STILL ON HIM FOR LISTENING TO HER. He is still a grown man and if anything you raised him so weak mind that he can’t speak up for himself then you only have yourself to blame.

Signed,

On behalf of insecure DILs everywhere in America[/quote]
Didn’t take long for triggered MIL to find this thread z[/quote]

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