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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dh has got so into the habit of this that I’ve started to avoid having guests over. It’s not actual screaming but I would describe it as trolling or the type of personal bickering that happens but typically not in front of other people. Example: 
Me: would you be ok to cook the zucchini while i give the kids their pizza?
Him (visibly irritated) I’m just about to do xyz. Why do you always find the exact time I’m right in the middle of something to ask me to do something else. It’s like you have a radar for when I’m either doing something or relaxing for one second. Can you just chill and I’ll get to the zucchini when i get to the zucchini

Me: I’m going to put the chicken on the bbq 
Him: the coals are too low now and the chicken will take ages and won’t cook properly and everyone will get sick. Why didn’t you put it on earlier? You always fail to understand how the bbq works and then try to live in bbq fantasy land and make things that are undercooked or overcooked

I can tell it makes people uncomfortable and it makes me uncomfortable but no matter how many times I tell him that it makes no impact. [b]What is this?[/b] Poorly controlled adhd? Other? [/quote]

Verbal abuse. It's verbal abuse. How are things otherwise?[/quote]

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