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[quote=Anonymous]OP if this is a pattern and it's making you unhappy it may be either you have distorted thinking (assume the worst, don't look for alternate evidence) or poor boundaries. I have had friends who felt like they were all take and I was an afterthought, but I made a bunch of excuses too because we can all be overburdened, burned out, flaky. I just changed my boundaries. It wasn't that I stated that the person must do something. I simply put less energy into the person, got together less and detached some and then found my comfort zone where I enjoyed the friendship. It was about changes I could make, not about trying to make the other person change.[/quote]
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