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[quote=Anonymous]I have ex-friends who have said many of these. But I figured out they were toxic. "You're too sensitive," "I was just joking," and "I'm sorry you feel that way" tend to travel as a matched set, IME. Here are some others that are along the same lines that I've learned are actually very disrespectful: "That's just my sense of humor." "I'm just playing devil's advocate." But really it's about how people treat you overall, not specific things they say. Do they respect you? When you express your feelings to them about how they treat you, are they interested in finding a solution that works for both of you, or annoyed at the idea that they might have to modify behavior a little? Can they admit when they are wrong?[/quote]
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