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[quote=Anonymous] My grandparents neglected their kids, particularly the youngest, my mother. They did not prevent her siblings from bullying her. My grandmother slapped her around and told her she was a mistake, should have been a boy, and that she did not love her. So my mother did very little to help her mother in her old age. One older sister did most of the heavy lifting, and received more inheritance. My mother contributed some money from afar. We did respond to one medical emergency, and I comforted my Grandma. We attended the funeral. I cried. My mother neither helped nor hindered my relationship with my Grandma. OP, all your feelings are normal! I'm sure my mother felt quite confused, but she didn't let on. You are a good human being, and the decisions you make will be the right ones for you. Peace. [/quote]
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