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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is our oldest nephew and I'm a SAHM, so I've never been through this before. Nephew is graduating from college. Sister and BIL are middle class. I'm a bit uncomfortable with my husband putting his neck out for an in-law who honestly doesn't seem deserving of a backdoor to a lucrative job. Or is this just how the world works and I should encourage my husband to help? [b]My husband has helped a couple of close friends' kids,[/b] but they all had pretty impressive CVs, so I don't think they really even needed the lift.[/quote] If he's willing to do it for friends' kids, you should definitely ask him to do it for your nephew. It's an entry-level position, he's not asking to be CFO. He can sink or swim once he gets there but having the door opened by a connection is *exactly* how the world works. It's strange that you call your nephew "an in-law" when speaking from your husband's perspective. Your sister and BIL are his in laws, but the next generation down is just . . . his nephew, same as yours. [/quote]
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