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[quote=Anonymous]For the last five to ten years, my husband yells at me loudly literally every single day if I bring up anything that he doesn't like to hear -- i.e. asking him to remember to lock the door when he comes in or leaves the house, saying that we should leave a little earlier for a destination because there is extra traffic that day (he says I am trying to control him when I say that).  Just about everything upsets him, and he starts yelling at the top of his voice, eyes bulging, saliva coming out of his mouth.  It's particularly strange because it's not even "hot topics" that might generate this level of anger.  It is his daily response to just about everything.  I used to get upset back and insist that the things he was saying weren't true.  But it has gotten to the point where I just keep calmly repeating, "Why are you screaming?  This is not something to get so upset about and can just be discussed calmly."  Nothing seems to calm him down.  He has recently started ADHD medication, which I was hoping would help him control his temper, but it has not helped so far in that department.  Has anyone dealt with this?  If so, what worked?  He will not go to see a psychologist because "he does not have an anger issue."  He is approaching sixty years old, so I don't know if this is some kind of male menopause issue, but he has become a raging monster.  [/quote]

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