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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So you feel you could have married a rich man. If you could have, you would have. You didn’t for a reason—likely because no rich man wanted you. I have the same thoughts, but I say to myself, there is nothing you could have done differently. I worked with the cards I was dealt. Do I wish I was born beautiful and from upper class family that paved the way for marrying a rich surgeon (a couple of my friends have this), yes! But that was not my reality. I was born low caste (we are immigrants) and pretty but nothing remarkable looks. So I married a man who was honest and hard working but not high earning. I don’t regret it, but it does sting at times that I have to work so hard because he doesn’t make much. [/quote]

not exactly... I hear you though. 
i dated SO MANY people, some of them earned a lot, some of them were more creative types. I never think 'if i could have married a rich man, then I would have'. I think, like many many women, I could have gone down a few different paths and some of them probably more pragmatic - and some probably less!
dh was by far the funniest and the one who seemed most in tune with actual human emotions. 
I think I was too trusting that his spoken ambition was reality/ would persist. [/quote]

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