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[quote=Anonymous]OP I have a very similar background- mentally ill mother and married DH at 23. It sounds like you are looking for justifications to leave DH so that you can relive your 20s and have sex with other men. Good luck with that, I guess? I say this with complete kindness but honestly it doesn’t sound like you have really worked through anything. Just because you had a sh** childhood doesn’t mean you don’t own your actual choices that you made as an adult. Yes, you mourn what could have been if your family life had been better but you don’t dwell on that at all times. I don’t feel bad that I didn’t party in my 20s- I was an adult and I made a different choice and I own that choice. There may have been a lot of miserable times in your life but if you continue to play the victim you are choosing to stay miserable for no reason. Fix your marriage and move forward with your life. Or get divorced but understand that “true love” may never happen for you.[/quote]
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