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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry OP. Are you still in therapy? What does your therapist say about all of this? I will say that it seems like you have an idealized notion of what teenage/college years are like for most people. Yes, there are fun times, and I think that's what people choose to remember, but they are really hard, awkward years for a lot of people too. I can honestly say I'm much happier with the stability and confidence I have in adult life. Also, have you and your DH tried couples therapy? I don't know anything about him, of course, but one thought is that he sees/hears you regretting the life you've had with him so far and he is reacting how he is (cutting you down) out of pain from that, or in a sad attempt to keep you from growing beyond him. Do you think there is any chance you two could grow together and have new experiences both as individuals and as a couple?[/quote]
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