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[quote=Anonymous]Have you told your husband how you feel about his reactions to your somewhat recent growth and self-actualization? You yourself say you feell like a different person. If YOU feel like that, there's a good chance he feels that way about you too and it is probably disorienting for his life partner to change so much. Give him a chance to come along the ride with you. Maybe he feels some of the same things you did. Maybe his knee jerk attempts to undercut your progress are coming from a place of insecurity and confusion about his world changing. Most people wish they had different or more experiences at certain points in their life. You need to make peace with it. Keep up with therapy. Invite and involve your husband. Having a failed marriage with children involved isn't going to help your ongoing work to overcome your trauma. If you end up divorced, please make sure can tell yourself that you gave it your best try. I'm sorry you had to experience a youth dominated by a terrible mother. [/quote]

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