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[quote=Anonymous]Really struggling with 20 year old DD's decision.  Objectively I know I am being unreasonable but could use some advice on how best to control my emotions. Basically, dd very mainstream never had a boyfriend but seemed interested in guys, summer after freshman year of college she met a girl who is gay and they are now dating. My daughter told me last august that she sees herself with a guy. she's attracted to guys but having a female relationship is not usual for girls these days. she said when back at school in the Fall she would try to meet guys and also build more of a social life b/c she struggled with finding her people. Fast forward to today--they are still dating. GF comes to visit her at school for one day on most weekends. She is still struggling with finding her people (though not positive related) and as off last month told me she still sees herself with a guy and most of her crushes are on guys.  I am frustrated b/c I think having someone visit doesn't help build a social life and b/c she won't meet a guy while she's with a girl. I have made my feeling known (she complains about social life at school and not finding a good reliable group of girlfriends) but realize if I keep talking about it, it will drive her away. I feel very frustrated with the situation and it's really getting me down. Advice on how to manage my frustration and what if anything to say to her? thx. [/quote]

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