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[quote=Anonymous]Trans woman here. Part of my family is very religious. I tried for very long time. Far longer than most people would have. I don’t regret it and some people’s family do accept them eventually but one of my parents never did and I eventually had to go no contact. After the third time where I was talking in the phone with them and they opened with a raised voice telling me they know me better than I know myself, I had to end it. Every time we got together or spoke on the phone, I was destroyed for several days after.

I wouldn’t say that you have to give up and go no contact immediately but be careful how long you go for. Hopes don’t make things reality.

To the perso. That suggested your son “stay closeted until he passes”, learn a little about trans people. First off, we should be able to be ourselves. Second, if he’s on HRT, we stop passing as our assigned gender before we ever start to pass. There’s an unfortunate time period where one is visibly transgender dressed either way (and this is true for both trans males and trans females).[/quote]

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