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[quote=Anonymous]My boyfriend and I each have a young kid from previous relationships.  We've been together for two years, and both of us are fully committed but don't see ourselves getting married again, and not living together until the kids are much, much older.  We are happy with the current situation.

I've never considered myself a jealous person, though this post will make you think otherwise, but him and his ex are very amicable and do a great job of co-parenting, and I'm glad that they are, for the sake of their child.  I don't doubt at all that he loves me, and I am fully confident there is nothing romantic/sexual with his ex, but I can't help but wonder if at this point in our relationship, I should be meeting her, especially since they get along so well?  Holidays and birthdays lately have had me feeling somewhat secondary, the longer we have been together.  My ex and I get along, but we rarely speak or see each other, don't get each other gifts for special occasions from the child, etc., things like that, so perhaps that contributes to these feelings too.

We are each other's first relationship post-divorce, so not sure if what I'm feeling is just something that I'm not used to and suck it up.  I'm on the fence of bringing this up, versus keeping my mouth shut as it involves his child.  It is not easy.[/quote]

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