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[quote=Anonymous]Men are like that. Maybe deep down he is ashamed that he couldn't handle it on his own and how much he leaned on you, so he is pulling away a bit. Joint crisis management connection cannot be an always ongoing connection - it's just not sustainable and not good for anyone. You need to figure out a different way to connect - that works for normal times when there is no crisis. More broadly, when we prop up someone so much or become the "savior" it's an attempt to control that person and control their perception of you. These are patterns that come from childhood and how you were programmed to view your own self-worth to your parents. Lots of material for individual therapy...[/quote]
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