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Reply to "Does your spouse make you feel like you have perpetually wronged them?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can’t really picture what you are talking about here. It sounds to me like you are regularly (perpetually?) being hurtful to your spouse in a way that you feel is minor, and potentially majorly hurtful 10 years ago, and you don’t like that they are upset about it. [/quote] The couple I know who seem to be like this had a situation where one spouse cheated many years ago, but kept quiet about it until a number of years after it happened. The spouse who was cheated on has had a tough time dealing with the idea that a person could be a great spouse for years and years while keeping the details of cheating secret. So, one spouse is hurt and upset about something that happened a very long time ago but doesn’t seem to know how to process it in a way that just sets it aside for good. It keeps coming back to their thoughts and then they “over react” to actions of their spouse. [/quote]
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