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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can’t really picture what you are talking about here.  
It sounds to me like you are regularly (perpetually?) being hurtful to your spouse in a way that you feel is minor, and potentially majorly hurtful 10 years ago, and you don’t like that they are upset about it.

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Grudge-holding, never-communicating spouse found the thread. [/quote]

Is the OP’s spouse never communicating?  It sounds like they are verbalizing that they are upset and feel wronged every time it happens.  
I thought that the issue was over communication about every little transgression.  [/quote]

OP describes rude comments and a tendency to comment over every tiny "transgression." That's not communication. That's nitpicking and can turn into verbal harassment. Genuine communication is not that, PP. Sounds like the spouse is not open to actually airing things in a way that would allow them both to get past the grudges and daily little nitpicks. Communication improves things; the constant verbalization of negatives does not. [/quote]

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