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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should let him know that you found out.
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You should then ask him to ask his sister if you can go.[/b]

Respect the answer you get back.

If you aren't invited, there's a reason, and crashing is wrong.  Who knows what it is.  But it's the wedding couple's day, and a respectful person would not seek to detract from it.

This might mean your SIL has permanently written off your relationship.  But so what.  If you are already estranged it doesn't really matter if you are not there.[/quote]

Don't do that. You aren't invited. Do not go. [/quote]

I am the person who recommended asking the spouse.  This is different than normal etiquette.  This is family excluding family for pointed reasons.  No way to tell what is wrong or who did what.  And the husband is already stuck in the middle.

OP, this is obviously upsetting, but only your husband owes you assistance with your feelings.  And definitely do not crash.  If he doesn't even want to talk to his sister about it, let it go.  Maybe he already did.

Your SIL being a bridesmaid in your wedding doesn't necessarily mean anything.  It's not relevant to how close you were at the time or what should be done now.  And we don't need to know what the "beef" was to know you shouldn't crash.  The wedding couple should determine who they want at their wedding and live with the consequences.[/quote]

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