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[quote=Anonymous]Op here. I do have a therapist and a psychiatrist. I do think all of these priorities are urgent and it’s really impossible to rank them. As one example, I have the money for the March and April mortgage payments but after that it’s really and truly gone. I am thinking I need to either rent my house out or sell it and move to the cheapest place I can find. I’m leaning towards renting it because it looks like I could potentially get $7-8k/month and the mortgage is only $3500/month. But we can’t rent it or sell it without fixing the leaking issues….and I don’t have the money to fix those….and now I’m spiraling again. Plus executing a move and the decluttering/cleaning/organizing that would be required would be wildly time consuming. I have the opportunity to take on some remote contracting work that I could do from home immediately. I could maybe make around $60/hour, but it would be time that I could not work on any of these other priorities. We have high childcare costs (a nanny) because DS can’t be in a normal daycare setting. We could lay her off but then I’d be stuck caregiving for DS round the clock and I wouldn’t be able to work or to do any of these other things. Medicaid I think will help with this-they supposedly will pay for respite care and habilitation, but I guess there’s no providers so I have to find the provider myself and they get hired by an agency and then the agency sends the provider. This is also a huge undertaking, getting all of this in order. I can’t even get the darn insurance card for the Medicaid. I spent 3 hours on the phone chasing that down last week. I’m sorry I’m rambling. I’m completely off the rails right now. I literally do not know what to do. I can’t take the weekend to organize myself because I’m caring for DS which is a full time job. I appreciate you all listening to me and trying to help. Thank you. Truly.[/quote]
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