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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m 45 and dating to find a life partner. For the last year I’ve been seeing the same man. We get along extremely well. Have a beautiful friendship, our lives integrate well, nice sex life, a whole lot in common, and he has a great relationship with my kid. My life is a lot better with him in it.

He is commitment shy however. Many things that signify commitment make him antsy…labels, marriage, financial entanglement, saying I love you. I have dated a lot and outside of his commitment hang ups he is by far the best match I’ve found, and he articulates that he similarly finds our connection rare.  I’m not hung up on marriage but I do want a life partner. We do life very well together currently, but because of his commitment hang ups we don’t talk about the future, just live blissfully in the moment. Would you move on? Or just enjoy what you have if you were in my shoes?[/quote]

Maybe he is in it for the long term but just doesn’t want to take on the father role, get married, or cohabitate.  If you knew he would be your forever guy but that you would continue on basically forever in exactly the current arrangement, would you sign up for that?[/quote]

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