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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had this with my now DH. Told him I loved him very much but wanted a husband and a family and I understand if he didn’t but that I needed to know. I meant it. Have him a six month deadline (not an ultimatum but a time I was prepared to wait). He proposed within two months. Now he says he doesn’t know what he was thinking and what he was afraid of. Obviously you are in a different situation but if lifelong commitment is truly important, you owe it to yourself to try to find it. If you can enjoy the moment and be fine with the idea of him walking away at any moment, then there’s nothing wrong with your current arrangement. Just do stay true to yourself and it will be ok.[/quote]

I gave myself a deadline re: a boyfriend. I told him about it. We laughed that it was arbitrary. It was. I laughed too. However, defining events actually happened close to that deadline!

It could have been pure coincidence. In our case, we broke up. I felt good about it.

Setting an intention with a deadline- as poster shares- is not a crazy idea!! It’s a way of forcing yourself to make an honest assessment of what you want.  [/quote]

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