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[quote=Anonymous]DH has never been good with money, or jobs, - anything related to adulting. We got married in our 20s. He was cute and childlike. In our 40s I’m tired of being mom to kids, to him, breadwinner, house cleaner, bill payer, cook, chauffeur, life organizer etc. he gets to work late then somehow doesn’t get home until the kids are in bed…. I don’t dislike him but this dynamic is not working for me.what I’m really torn over is that I can’t leave due to finances. My bad but somehow money has become for him “I keep my paycheck and buy fun stuff. You pay for everything else.” So if we divorce then I’ll have to pay him maintenance and lose equity in house, and my savings, and he has massive debt and I’d still get custody of the kids and all our expenses… My father asked if I needed financial help to leave. I don’t know how that would even work…. Talk me off a ledge. [/quote]
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