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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Can you afford to not focus on the job search right now? It sounds like your DS's needs are really all consuming and would be hard to balance with a new job. It can be hard when you need both incomes, I don't know how free your choices are, but even a few months could help to calm things down.

I wouldn't assume you and DH couldn't get a HELOC together based just on his income for less than 10% of the value of your home. Could he start calling around about that while you focus on DS and medical? [/quote]

Op here. Yes I agree I need a few months before I could work again but I feel like if I want to be working by like, April/May/June, I need to be applying now since processes are so slow.

DH isn’t helpful. It’s a whole other issue. I’ve asked him over and over again to even just apply for a 0% credit card for us to use for a few months or to do a balance transfer. I can’t count on him. Yes, I have a DH problem but that has to be on the back burner for now.[/quote]

I'm sorry OP. It's a lot to put on you, then. My vote would still be to back-burner the job search; it doesn't have to be "until I fix all the other stuff," maybe a couple of weeks or some other deadline you set. Or alternate weeks when you look for jobs and deal with banking/house stuff along with DS.

Again, sorry you are dealing with all this at once. It sounds really hard and lonely. [/quote]

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