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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am 27 and he is 26. In many ways he is my dream man! Handsome, sweet, well-read, worldly and smart. So kind and adores me!

I want to get married and have children. It is the only real goal I have for myself. And I worry as I realize that having that family lifestyle in Nova requires a certain income. I do not come from money and work at a non profit as a program assistant. My BF makes only a little more than me as a research analyst even though he has a masters from SAIS.

I guess it’s occurring to me that neither of us in on the path to make a lot of money and then…how will we get married, buy a house and have children?

It makes me worry. I love him SO much and I don’t want to act like a gold digger by breaking up with him because I don’t think he’ll ever be able to afford a family… what do I do? [/quote]

This is so sad to read.  You found a guy who you utterly love and you are actually thinking of breaking up with him just because he doesn't make enough money right now.  Women like you are your own worst enemy and it shows that you would rather have a crap married with money than a loving marriage being middle income.

It's really sad to even read this.  Do you know how many people would rather have true love than just have money?  You are the reason women are so unhappy and why men hate women.[/quote]

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