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[quote=Anonymous]A friend of mine is getting married at the end of this month and has documented a lot of the wedding journey on instagram - she posted stories of her save the dates, sending invitations, etc. I was a bit surprised not to receive either but I understand how expensive weddings are and the various issues surrounding guests lists, and made peace with the fact that we obviously weren’t as close as I’d thought. Well, I received an invitation today inviting me to the wedding, and my first thought was that she had received a number of declines and was moving on to her “B list” to fill seats. To be honest, I think this is pretty tacky and rude and I’m not sure if I want to attend.

I got married semi-recently and we did have a significant number of people unable to make it. We ended up not inviting any “new” people to fill their spots as I thought it would be rude to make it so obvious they weren’t on our “first choice” list. The only exception was that we allowed one guest, who had entered into a relationship between us setting our guest list and the time of the wedding, to bring their significant other.

Am I being petty?  [/quote]

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